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The inability of a child to thrive in a Constitutionally protected God based perpetual threat and rape culture is not a fault of the child; however it does become their odious responsibility upon reaching adulthood.

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Grace Tame's ''6 Stages of Grooming'' in a Catholic context

Published: Sunday, 31 October 2021 7:19:30 AM

Updated: September 13 2022 16:12:38. AEST

The 6 stages of grooming referred to by Grace Tame are:

    1 Targeting the Victim: ...
    2 The Bond: ...
    3 Filling a Need: ...
    4 Access + Separation; Isolating the child. ...
    5 Abuse Begins; Normalizing Touch & Sexualizing the Relationship: ...
    6 Maintaining Control:

She then goes on to describe how this was used against her. Grace Tame explains the six stages of grooming

In the following I will take these 6 indicators and describe how the Catholic religion uses each of those stages to gain and hold power over defenceless children as they have done for untold centuries to our parents, grandparents and further back into that dark history of grooming by the Catholic religion.

Targeting the Victim

A child becomes a target through no fault of their own as they are most often targeted simply because they had the misfortune to be born into the Catholic religion. The child has no support that is unaffected by these grooming processes and techniques; they are helpless and are entirely powerless. Their human rights are over-ridden by the dictates and wants of the religion.

The Bond

Comes from the trauma of experiencing a permanent direct life threat that is the hands of a violent, threatening and murderous God who is fed information by the pope, clergy and their acolytes and is willing to take the child's life for any perceived indiscretion.

Filling a Need

The Need is established very early through presenting clergy and the Catholic religion as the only viable path to a safe and happy future, with that future ensured by the legions of followers, advocates and people in positions of power and authority and influence the Australian continent and across the entire world. There is a need to bond with such a powerful and connected entity if success in life is to be achieved as to do otherwise is to trigger your instant death while denying you connection with your natural family in a proffered next life.

Access + Separation; Isolating the child

By substituting the family structure with a Catholic Church structure that mimics the disempowered family structure and enabling it with supernatural powers that can be brought against the child at the whim of any who claim power and connection to the deceptions of the Catholic God. The whole of the natural family structure is held to ransom by perpetual threat whilst the family structure in name and conduct is substituted in the Catholic presentation of their clergy using family honorific such as mother, father, brother, sister in the presentation of a toxic overtaking of the natural family structure that we humans have evolved with and have a human right to. Each child is separated from their natural family in this way as it isolates and disempowers them while it destroys every endeavour of siblings and family to hold their family together. No Catholic family or Catholic child is free in this way; some hide it more effectively than others.

Abuse Begins; Normalizing Touch & Sexualizing the Relationship

Mine started at 3.5 years of age.

When people with so many inhuman rules and fantastic beliefs are gathered together and empowered in the community then children will increasingly suffer from the mental health issues that result from accidental engagement in severly dysfunctional social and religious systems. Systems that are specifically protected under religious freedom laws when in fact such laws should be secular and should cover all Australians in the tradition of the way we established our federation that identifies us as a secular country governed by secular laws instead of dividing secular Australia on the basis of religious belief.

Maintaining Control

The annual recycling of horror, torture and constant re-enforcing of the fragility of the individual's life and the belief that a supreme being capable of creating our entire universe is directly connected and in communication with Catholics, the pope and Catholic clergy who use this to hold power and authority over any that come within their grasp.

The empowerment of entrapment and enslavement under the guise of religion is simply no longer acceptable.

The evidence that these stages are effective can be seen in the fact that more than a billion people can be trapped for life in an endless, insurmountable form of psychological entrapment and slavery that breaches every aspect and reason for the existence of human rights.


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Addendum Wednesday, 22 June 2022 5:08:27 PM - I may not have this down syntax, word and letter perfect or with absolute precision in every aspect; however time and the evidence will show that I am closer to the truth than any religion has been or will be. Let history be the standard by which that is measured.

The Commissioner informs us that the clergy sexual abuse issue was all over and that it had only been a small statistical glitch around the year 2000. History shows this to have been a display of absolute ignorance on the issue ...

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