The FAQyMe gene

«    11    12    13    14    15    16    17   18   19   20   21    »

The inability of a child to thrive in a Constitutionally protected God based perpetual threat and rape culture is not a fault of the child; however it does become their odious responsibility upon reaching adulthood. The Christian religion at it's core is a toxic mechanism whereby intergenerational trauma has been kept alive, active and deeply embedded in each new generation over the past 2,000+ years.

The FAQyMe gene #16

"Chronic Cultural Trauma. Systematic abuse, blocking, stymieing of those who tried to speak out. Chronic Childhood Trauma. Normalized Human Rights Abuses under the cover of the freedom to practice a religion"

15 Critical Habits of mentally Strong People

You got this far! Me taking a mental diversion - enjoy and will add more as chance permits

On a day where I am doing OK but not able to find any future I turn my head to what and where I should go in this situation.

Where else but the Internet. What am I looking For? What I am looking for is the ability to hire someone who is mentally capable of reading my stuff without escalating me so that I can have them set a schedule of sorts that will keep me on the task of writing of these events. Currently I have begun to write pages like this as a way of getting some of my thoughts down so now I have a growing list of pages with titles that I can recall and as a recollection or thoughts come to me I can go to a page and write on that. That process is to me pretty random and is led by my emotional responses to current events around me and if left to that I will ignorantly step around any of those things that I find difficult which of course is the very stuff I want to write about as writing about or talking about most of it settles it so much for me. I think that describes that part reasonably closely.

"Emotional intelligence is the cornerstone of mental toughness. You cannot be mentally tough without the ability to fully understand and tolerate strong negative emotions and do something productive with them." Forbes

I have managed to get this far in explaining my life and how childhood events had a role in getting me here so I must fit in with the "36% of these who are able to accurately identify their emotions as they happen". Whew I seem to be off the ground and running. My confidence flies.

"They'ôre Confident"

Well there is a surprise. What am I confident about and what am I not confident about as this fact appears to be one upon which sucess is defined, made and put away. I am busting with excitement at the prospect of reviewing this some more.

"They Neutralize Toxic People"

I have done when I found myself in circumstances that I realised were toxic. I can recall my most recent that said "Your attempted intervention was not wanted, not warranted and not professional". Deflecting them is a better approach rather than attempting to neutralise as this can draw you more deeply into an already toxic situation.

An example here is the survivor of childhood sexual abuse by Catholic clergy attempting to bring those matters to a close be that via the Church offered processes, police, Royal Commission, taskforce SANO, psychiatry, psychology or family. Then of course there is the circumstance where your very existence is seen as being toxic towards someone's personal salvation or their personal relationship with their supreme being of choice or by imagination.

Personally I would scrub this one off any strong point list I made in my life.

"They Embrace Change"

Love it and the more of the better.

Now apart from organised religion, psychopaths and apologists in positions of authority such as politics, policing, health, government services and a diagnostic manual that at the stroke of pen "cured" more than 100 million people across the planet and aided in protecting them from perpetual persecution by aligning their diagnosis with the available evidence. Perhaps in a few years time the DSM will remove is biases towards those of us with no beliefs in gods, goblins, supreme beings due to a lack of evidence as then hundreds of millions more people will be exempted from the organised insanity of this toxic form of diagnosis and treatment.

My only wish is that religion and those who follow one, psychopaths and apologists in positions of authority in politics, policing, health, government services and the more could embrace sufficient change that would leap them forward a few thousand years in the cycle of human development; at least to the point where we are beyond scapegoating, wilful ignorance, indoctrination, psychological entrapment and the human rights that children are supposed to have with regard to making choices about their future - none of that happening in religion of course.

When a taskforce is given the Latin name (of course the denial for that has had a long time to develop but help yourself to a long long list of Latin named police taskforces as history shows a solid connection with our "Christian heritage" and more particularly Catholic wherever there is a chance to block the progress of a claimant through filtering State and Criminal law through a Catholic indoctrinated filter. Nothing to see here now move along or will all that be over if Victoria Police decide to apologise for their many years long obstruction of victims.

Victoria Police should disband SANO as any apology without doing so would only be a fraud and would take the World further back towards those primitive ways of life we are all trying to move forward of and beyond.

"They Say No"

I manage that Ok I feel.

"They Know That Fear Is The No. 1 Source Of Regret"

Most of us Catholic raised children learn that very early on in our life. There is no fear greater than the fear of losing your life and a Catholic childhood is one where you get to experience that as early as possible.

I had that in spades by the time I was 3 and half.

By then I had just begun to learn that both fear and regret were going to become the most consistent parts of my interactions with siblings. The question in that goes to one that asks which one were suffering from fear and which were suffering from regret.

Today I still regret the fracturing that the sexual and physical abuse and torture by nuns and priests forced into my life and the lives of my brothers and sisters. That for me is a regret and one that will only die with me as the injury caused in the childhoods of so many still persist today and whenever I attempt to engage in conversation or to ask questions it seems I am met with fear and possibly regret. Most of all I am met with silence and in that is a reminder of childhood unspoken fears where it was simply assumed that the other would know what I must do. For them that was to be silent and many of them are still bonded to the fears that brought that about.

"They Embrace Failure . . ."

Failure and family go hand in hand once you stand up and announce that you don't believe in imaginary gods, fairies, demons or other implausible imaginary entities and of course if you add to that that you openly acknowledge that you are a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Add shock, horror and mock trauma if your abuser was Catholic clergy. Add hypocrisy if you want what is nominally deemed to be justice in the land of a fair go. Give us Aussie kids a "Fair Go Mate!" see how many of us kids have been and will be sexually abused by the time we are 12 years old

". . . Yet, They Don't Dwell On Mistakes"

Is this really a good piece of advice? Learning is all about seeing, acknowledging and understanding what went wrong as that is how we learn.

". . . and They Don't Limit The Joy Of Others"

It would be far easier to say that they were no longer adversely affected by the trauma inflicted on them by religion in their childhood as the limiting of joy and happiness is a benchmark that the Catholic religion sets way above so many other toxic belief systems. Bad ideas simply don't get better over time - they remain bad ideas.

"They Exercise"

I fail here.

"They Get Enough Sleep"

I am a winner here.

"They Limit Their Caffeine Intake"

And I am a winner here.

"They Don't Wait For An Apology To Forgive"

Been a way of life since childhood.

"They'ôre Relentlessly Positive"

I am a winner here else I would not be alive to sit here to write this.

"Bringing It All Together"

There is no future while you live in poverty.

My top Mentally Tough points

TFYQA Think for Yourself Question Authority

When what you say, what you mean and what you do are in harmony you are being as factual and real as you possibly can be.

I view psychiatry as being on a par with religion; they are both made up with little to no evidence to support them.

Later in life John married in Toowoomba only to find that he was related to the then bishop of Toowoomba Bill Morris. Morris was the head of the bishops conference and was the go to person in the country for survivors of childhood sexual abuse by Catholic clergy and yet I was never able to get a time or a conversation with the bishop. I did get conversations or connection with a number of Catholic organisations with varying degrees of weirdness.

email   Facebook share link   Youtube Chanel LinkedIn share link Click to chip in  Twitter share link   Print

Divider - dont forget to donate so we can keep on with education to protect children - hope you benefitted from reading this

Surprise yourself -

"This is a matter for the church and I respect the internal judgements of the church. I don't stand outside the church and provide them with public lectures in terms of how they should behave. I've noted carefully what his Holiness has said in the United States. Obviously that was a source of great comfort and healing in the United States. I'm like all Australians very much looking forward to what the Pope has to say here in Australia as well, as I am to my own conversation with the Pope later this morning." Kevin Rudd, Prime Minister of Australia, 17 July 2008. more

If you found this information to be of assistance please don't forget to donate so that we can extend these information pages which are focused on providing knowledge and information to survivor/victims on their Human Rights with justice, compassion and empathy at the fore along with sound knowledge of Human Biology and Psychology, Human Evolution and Neuroscience. Information is not provided as legal or professional advice; it is provided as general information only and requires that you validate any information via your own legal or other professional service providers.

Look for these other FAQyMe Gene educated, secular, social-inclusion sites.

Clergy Abuse Action - repurposed || Molested Catholics by the Million || Captain Obvious - My Broken Society || A first in Secular Australia for Children - It's not Rocket Science || The Blue Print - It's OH so Obvious - repurposed || The GCAC - The Global Clergy Abuse Crisis - repurposed || TFYQA Think for Yourself, Question Authority || XT3 Molested Catholic courtesy of George Pell and babbling Benny || Defending the Human Rights of Catholic Adults and Children Trauma in Religion || The FAQyMe Gene - The FAQ Why Me Gene blog

Divider - dont forget to donate so we can keep on with education to protect children - hope you benefitted from reading this

Wednesday, 22 June 2022 - I may not have this down syntax, word and letter perfect or with absolute precision in every aspect; however time and the evidence will show that I am closer to the truth than any religion has been or will likely be.
Let history be the standard by which that is measured.

Youtube - listen to Commissioner Bob Atkinson get it wrong - again
The Commissioner informs us that the clergy sexual abuse issue was all over and that it had only been a small statistical glitch around the year 2000. History shows this to have been a display of absolute ignorance on the issue ...

Makarrata : a better future for our children based on justice and self-determination. The Uluru Statement from the Heart. See Yours, mine and Australia's children. I acknowledge the Traditional People and their Ownership of Australia.

  trauma informed     human rights     justice     failed institutions     UN Convention on Human Rights     Rights of the Child and a Bill of Rights for Australia     future     evidence     resilience     not providing or representing a secular Australia     autodidact     religion     human rights     rights of the child     justice for survivors of abuse by religious   

Hegemony: The authority, dominance, and influence of one group, nation, or society over another group, nation, or society; typically through cultural, economic, or political means.


Divider - dont forget to donate so we can keep on with education to protect children - hope you benefitted from reading this

What's HOT on FAQyMe Gene affiliated pages

XT3 Molested Catholic - Corrs Chambers Westgarth

My Broken Society - GOD's LAWS

Molested Catholic - Decree Crimen

Investigating the Impact of Religious Indoctrination on Children's Autonomy and Human Rights

Dear Benedict

Recently published on The FAQyMe gene

#730 The AI and Ken Kosiorek.

#729 How ChatGPT4 sees Kay Ebeling; The City of Angels Lady.

#728 How ChatGPT4 sees me

#727 50 Recent apologies by the Vatican for their criminal actions

#726 From God to God and on to God ad infinitum

#725 More on the Decree Crimen and why QLD police do not investigate the Catholic Church

Constant favorites on The FAQyMe gene

#50 Yours, mine and Australia's children

#116 Human Rights and survivors of childhood sexual abuse by clergy a farce in Australia

#142 How aware are Australians of the truth of the cover up of the sexual abuse of children in 2018?

#157 Australian Constitution Hijacked into Empowering Criminal Clergy

#350 Serving two masters - Australians can still be raped and legally denied justice under the protections afforded to the Vatican by our Constitution

#456 Have you watched the Marita Murphy story? ''You be the Judge''

#574 It's not a lot to ask when the Human Rights of children are at stake

Most Recommended The FAQyMe gene


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingJohn Brown Australian Constitution Hijacked into Empowering Criminal Clergy  


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingJohn Brown Our PM and Premiers have it Wrong and We Lose because of it


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingJohn Brown Human Rights and survivors of childhood sexual abuse by clergy a farce in Australia  


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingPat Mills Catholic Knights and Dirty Money - March 14, 2023


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingJohn Brown Yours, mine and Australia's children  


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingAndrew Klein Child sexual abuse and the destruction of communities


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingPaul Levey About my life and my abuse by the Catholic paedophile priest Gerald Francis Ridsdale  


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingJohn Brown Transcript - Traumatized and Venting on the NSW Police Minister's words


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingMarita Murphy Have you seen the Marita Murphy You be the Judge story yet?  


Star RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingStar RatingJohn Brown The intention to defraud the child of their human rights and human dignity begins with entrapment of the child

Were you like so many others born into a constitutionally protected God based death and rape culture?

About and bits

Copyright The FAQyMe Gene © 2023. Trauma in Religion - 15 Critical Habits of mentally Strong People Site Map XML Site Map
IP Geolocation by geoPlugin